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I also made him show me the sort of thing he was watching so I wasn't wondering about that. He does watch gay porn every now and then (maybe once a month) but he is open with when he is and only if I'm ok with it. Since then any questions I have he will always answer and he is honest and open about all sorts of things he wasn't before and he has worked so hard. I moved on I guess because my OH has always been a good hubby, he was desperate for us to stay together, we've always had a good sex life, he finally opened up and was completely honest about his sexuality and would stay up all night talking and trying o answer all the questions I had. I’m fighting a brick wall, I’m giving suggesting as to why he is doing it where as he can’t give me any sort of reason ‘ I don’t know why’ Hopefully this will get him to be truthful with himself and me. I’m so angry that he has messed up everything. He said he will never phone again but what if I just let us go back to normal, I’d be constantly checking his phone / phone bills / not trusting him when he works away. As far as he has said it’s never been gay porn just this phone number. TalJ - how did you learn to move on with this? Do you still see your husband in the same way? Intimate in the same way? Does he still watch the gay porn and you’re ok with this? Im not sure I can be ok with it. After another night of no sleep and lots of internet searching I’ve told him I think he is bi curious. He is adamant he has only listened to the greetings, I find that hard to believe as why would you just listen to people say hello. I’ve phoned the number, it’s basically men giving 5 second greetings ‘ I’m bob and looking for other men’ then you choose to message them / meet up/ listen to more greetings. You probably will build the trust, it’s probably just my man that can’t control him self due to there being no trust for him. You might have already done this but If not I hope this helps:-). Let it all out talk to each other it helps. Don’t take ‘I don’t know’ for an answer, demand for an answer you have a right to know!!! Also get him to ‘think flip’ if it was you, how would he feel? Let him know how you’re feeling. Write them down if you need to, get all of the questions you need answered. His reaction should tell you a lot though! I’m adamant he is bisexual but he won’t admit it. But we love each other very much and would be lost if we weren’t together. I still don’t have that trust there unfortunately because of things done recently. Sex isn’t an issue with us so I think if he was gay he wouldn’t be able to ‘get it up’ and that gives me peace at mind. His dad is VERY anti gay too so I think he may be scared. He did say he was confused and he is straight but like I said couple months ago I found he’d been searching for gay twitter feeds for videos:-/. I catch him looking at guys quite often, but he says it’s to see if they’re looking at me which is a load of rubbish. I fear that one day I will too get up one day and he confesses he’s gay. He’s done a lot since then with girls on social media (I just pray to god he hasn’t cheated). I’m sure I split with him for two weeks but always kept going to see him because he was my best friend I think that’s why I decided to get back together we had only been going out for 2 years then. Honestly, I got a sigh of relief when I read your post knowing I wasn’t alone too. He is adamant he isn’t gay and I believe he truly believes this but I don’t understand why he is calling. I have contacted a counsellor in the hope we can get an appointment. Last night he didn’t cope well when I found out, very anxious, saying he couldnt live, his life was over. We have been married for 8 years, 3 year old and 6 year old. I don’t know what to think, I’m so shocked by it all.
He said he has never done anything with anyone / photos/ videos / websites etc. He says he never talks and just listens and doesn’t know why he does it as he says he doesn’t get aroused.
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Random times of day - when he has been away but also when I’ve been downstairs watching TV / in the afternoon before coming home from work. Turns out from his phone records it’s been going on at least a year and can be up to a few times a month. He has always been not very accepting of gays so came as a big surprise. By accident I found out last night that my husband has been using gay chat lines.